You Cannot Buy Happiness

The happiest people on earth are not necessarily the richest. Of course being rich can add to your joy and comfort but it is not the best criterion for happiness. You can pursue happiness by making sure you devote your time and resources to doing what makes you and other people happy. Above all, happiness is a choice. Make up your mind to be happy no matter the situation you find yourself. I choose to be happy: What about you?

What Is Success?

Everybody want to succeed in life, nobody wants to fail. Your perception of success might be different from the person next to you. Some equate success to huge bank accounts, successful career and stardom. Others equate success to academic success and recognition. There is also the group who sees success as having more than enough to feed their families and live in small comfort. All of the groups mentioned are right because success is a relative term. Our measure of success varies according to our priorities and life values. Therefore do not measure your success based on what others have accomplished. If you are satisfied and contented with your present level both in your family, career, academic and financial status, then your are successful. Also remember that a wealthy man who does not have the good health and loved ones to share his wealth with may not be considered successful after all What is your idea of a successful person, please share it on the comment section below

You Can Never Please Everybody

In our quest for acceptance among peers, colleagues, family, neighbors and so on, we often aim to please them even at the expense of our comfort and happiness. No matter what you do, you often discover that some are still not happy with you. Friends, stop trying too hard, just do your best and leave the rest to God. If you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing nobody. Remember this- You cannot please everybody, don't even try. Cheers!

Do Something New Today

At times we remain the way we are for no reason than just fear of change. There are so many things we can accomplished in life if only we just take the first step. The problem is we always wait for right moment to start some things and end up not doing anything Be honest, what do you desire to do now? Don't wait anymore. Do it now. Do something new today

Awaken Your Talents

So many of us have hidden talents that we have either neglected or even refused to acknowledge that they exist. The reason is that most times we are more concerned about those things that put money into our pockets. But do you know how far you can go when you tap into yourn hidden potentials? Can you write, sing, dance, cook, sew, teach? Are you good in photography, artworks and others? Think of what you can do well in addition to your normal career and academic duties. Awaken your talents now, who knows it might be the beginning of greater things in your life. Don't look down on yourself and don't allow other people to do the same.

Happiness Is A Choice

Stop waiting for problems to be solved before you are happy. Stop waiting for situations to be perfect before you smile. As long as we live, there will always be issues to be resolved. The difference is that at times the problem seems more enormous than others. But Strive harder, change your strategies if possible and be focused on overcoming your challenges. Everyone have their own share of problems. Don't be jealous of those whose lives seems so perfect. There is no perfect life, just have the right attitude to life Choose to be happy now while you work on having a more glorious life, Cheers!!

ENCOURAGE YOURSELF

Everyone desire to have loved ones, friends, confidants who will always offer words of encouragement when they need it most. But if you solely depend on others to lift you up when you feel down, you maybe utterly disappointed. Everyone have their issues they are dealing with. Learn to encourage yourself. Pray, read, sing, do whatever makes you happy. Stop telling your problem to those who cannot proffer any solution, you will only make yourself the subject of good gossip. What you think is the worst situation, might actually be mild compared to what others are facing. As we go into this festive season, be bright and merry. All will be well

DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN YOUR WANTS AND YOUR NEEDS

There are so many things we want that we do not really need. If you ask me what I want , I can tell you that I want to buy the latest Toyota SUV, but is that what I really need right now? The answer is NO. It is not wise spending so much money on a car when you are still living in a rented apartment. We must learn to always differentiate between our needs and our wants, and focus on what we need. What we need now is of more importance because it will determine your success and fulfillment in life What do you really need now? Is it good a job or business? Is it good relationships with your partner and family Is it good education? Determine what you need now and focus on it. Stop pursuing what others are pursing just to be in the same class with them. Be your yourself, you are unique.

SHARE YOUR PROBLEMS

Problems or challenges are part of life. Relationships are what makes life worth living. But we cannot shy away from relationship issues. Marital.dating. Parenting. Friendships relationships can be very tasking. Let help you find solutions to your relationship issues and those that concerns people you know. Write and also contribute to relationships topics on this blog

SHARE YOUR SUCCESS STORY

Do you have a success story to share? It could be your personal story or someone you know. Inspire others by telling them true life situation that ends on a positive note. So many people are just waiting for such to lift them up. You can write your story to me directly and also on the comment section on relevant topics. Your contribution will be highly appreciated Email:stelloladiran@"gmail.com

Welcome to my blog

It's  my great pleasure  to welcome you all to my new blog. Here you will have the very best of inspirational  writings, Relationship stories  and advice. We are also going to focus  on self development,  life style issues  and spiritual  matters.  I can guarantee  you that  becoming  a member  of this blog will be worth  your while. Having  been a blogger for the past five years, its time to use my experience  to your advantage.  Welcome!